Problems with long term relationship...I don't know what to do?

Long term relationships are tough, I am currently in one as well. I know that the idea of leaving your current girlfriend for one that you see more often may sound appealing, but you must weigh the options first. All relationships take work, especially when you don't get to see your loved one all the time. Before you even think about leaving your current girlfriend, try putting that spark back in the relationship. Take her out on a very romantic date or even a small trip together. I think that people sometimes just get a little to pessimistic and need to look for the good in every situation. you need to remind yourself why yo'u are in a relationship and put that spark back in your life.