Single parents, got any tips on dating? I mean, it's scary, the stories you hear.?

Statistically, Mom's new boyfriend is most likely to be the molestor if the kids get molested. Conversely, innocent guys sometimes get their reputations besmirched by a kid falsely accusing him of abuse because the kid wants the boyfriend out of the picture. Plus it's hard to build a new relationship with the ex is trying to cause problems. You don't want the kids feeling neglected or slighted but, on the other hand, you can't just stay celibate until the youngest turns 18, can you? What's your viewpoint?